” Due to a deep personal obsession with spanking, I can reassure you that it’s as versatile as each human’s mood and imagination. It can be playful, sweet, silly, sensual, erotic, nasty, campy, solemn, serious, emotionally therapeutic, or ritualistic. It can be extremely light or extremely heavy. It can be foreplay to other sexual activities or an act unto itself. It can be partner care like a massage or powerful BDSM play.
Often the spanker simply adores looking at and touching asses; and similarly, many people who enjoy being spanked do so because it makes them feel sexually open, stimulated, and worshipped. After all, the ass is the flesh that surrounds the sensitive nerves of the genitals, and any manipulation of that area brings blood, sensation, and attention to those oh-so-sexy organs between the legs.
Spanking also doesn’t involve fluid exchange and is therefore extremely low risk for STI transmission and pregnancy.
You can spank with a spouse, a lover, a date, a girl/boyfriend, a professional, a play partner, or a close but non-sexual friend. It’s gender-non-specific, queer-friendly, and possible for people with all kinds of physical conditions that might limit other sex acts. In its purest form, spanking doesn’t require fancy expensive speciality equipment, costumes, or facilities. Once you have a consenting partner, it’s COMPLETELY FREE! ”
- from my “How to Spank” article in Issue 3 of Whore! magazine
Spank on.
(via homoarigato)
